Adjusting to Change

  *** Seth, my Spirit Guide, came along with this article. I put his part in a bold italic font. I hope you enjoy it.

Tuesday, June 2, 2026

Adjusting to Change

 


*** Seth, my Spirit Guide, came along with this article. I put his part in a bold italic font. I hope you enjoy it.

If I had this or that, I could do this or that. Just fill in the blanks. I operated that way for much of my life. It still happens. I mean, when you figure that was your reasoning for the many years of your life, well, what does it take to change your mind?

Continued poverty.

Yup, that did it.

The goal, back in the day, was to become wealthy. That didn’t happen. It was always something going on that prevented it from happening. Blame…blame…blame. It was a never-ending cycle, and it was always somebody else’s fault. I don’t know when I began to think differently about it.

I suppose it might have been when I thought it might be interesting to see what would happen if I were actually happy with my life.

In spite of.

Just be happy.

How? They are all nuts out there. They won’t allow me to be happy.

Who is running this show?

Okay, so they are never going to change. I can’t make them change. So, why bother?

Okay.

Okay, so if I can’t change their attitude, I can only change my own attitude.

Good luck with that.

Well, it did take a while.

Seth, could you comment on this? It’s sort of all muddled together for me. I pick one piece out, it makes sense right then, and then it gets all mixed back in with the rest of it and is gone.

Delighted. Everybody will settle. You are happy with what is going on in your life, and so you don’t do anything extra to make a continued happy existence possible for you. You think you are doing fine. The world is good and then. The bottom drops out. That is the real test of a person’s resilience. How do you recover from a catastrophic event like the loss of your spouse, the loss of a job, or hurricane-force winds that just blew your house down? You pick yourself up and do it again.

This, though, could be the moment when a person can also stand there and say to themselves, “I want to do this differently this time.” There is no right way or wrong way to build over. The strength you show is in not giving up.

There, is that satisfactory?

Well, yes, that’s good. How about if they are little upsets?

Like what?

Well, like your best friend is dating your boyfriend.

That might be improved with a bit of poison.

What? Are you suggesting poison?

It could be managed. Perhaps an upset stomach.

I think I’d rather hire a witch to put a nasty spell on her.

That might involve more immediate Karmic overtones.

Like what?

Well, you could be hanged for a witch, too. Small communities don’t have much privacy.

Well, you’re right about that. Besides, this would only work for a story, not in real life.

You don’t know that.

Well, I’d hope it would. There are enough nuts out there already.

True. Many are Republicans.

Ha. Now, this is getting funny. Okay, so all that, as I said before, would be good in a story, but I don’t think it would work well in real life.

So, you allow yourself time to grieve whatever it is that is lost, but after a little bit, you start picking up the pieces of your life. You go back to washing your clothes again. You clean your house. You manage to cook one complete meal a week. You go back to work. The important thing is not to change the rest of your life; it is to pick up the reins of your life before the upset. Granted, there are activities that you can’t do now because of the missing piece of your life, but you can improvise. It was a major upset and will require a time of healing and adjusting.

At some point, you will think to reach out to your community, whether they are an online community or people in your life. You don’t have to plunge back into the same activities, just a few of them. Get your bearings again. And, after a period of time, which is something that only you can determine, whether it is six months or two years, you strike out and begin something new or perhaps different.

Even good things need a period of adjustment to take place.

I didn’t know I needed this.

Everybody does. Our blessings and enjoy your day.

Okay, I’m back again. That was just a spot of channeling. Because we talked about writing, I am going to publish this on my writer’s website. It could have gone to other places, too, but it was the bit about having the imaginary part of it be in a story that convinced me.

Otherwise? This is what it is like to talk to Spirit any old time you want. The story has sat on my computer desktop for a few days. I wasn’t sure what to do with it, and once I sat down today, it being Sunday, the 31st of May 2026, I thought, “I need to finish this up. So, thanks to Seth, my Spirit Guide, for stepping in to talk about something really interesting. I can always count on you.

My pleasure, Madam.

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